“I want someone kind, wise, filled with love, and grounded in good character” – Nigerian woman seeks second wife for her husband

A Nigerian woman, Buithat Hudu Muhammad Lawal, is seeking a second wife for her husband.   The Biochemist, who disclosed this in a Facebook post on Wednesday, April 9, 2025, said she admires polygamy but has issues with the way some men go about it.   According to Buithat, she doesn’t want a jealous or manipulative co-wife but someone kind, wise, filled with love and of good character. “Hey loves, Im smiling as I write this. Yesterday, I made a post about wanting a co-wife someone to join me in this journey of life with my husband. I noticed a lot of people thought I wasnt serious, maybe even joked about it. But deep down, I meant every word, she wrote.  Ive always admired polygamy. Its never been an issue for me. What I do take issue with is how many of our men go about it, lacking fairness and wisdom. Growth changes a person. As Ive grown, so have my thoughts. Ive always told my husband, if he wants to take another wife, I support it but he must involve me fully in the process. No, Im not looking for a jealous or manipulative co-wife. I want someone kind, wise, filled with love, and grounded in good character. I want the freedom to travel for work knowing my children are safe and cared for. I want to be able to love and care for another child of my husbands not born by me with sincerity, and knowing their mother trusts me completely. I have a deep vision of what polygamy can be, but the real questions are: Can my husband be truly just? And can the new wife be spiritually grounded? Life really isnt meant to be this hard. I just needed to share my thoughts on polygamy and what it means to me.k    The post “I want someone kind, wise, filled with love, and grounded in good character” – Nigerian woman seeks second wife for her husband appeared first on Linda Ikeji Blog.